Night Weaning

Night feeds are more than nutrition - they’re comfort, connection, regulation, and closeness.

So when you reach a stage where you’re thinking about night weaning, it often comes with mixed feelings: “Am I taking something away?” “Will my baby feel secure?” “Is it too early?” “Is this the right choice for us?”

Take a deep breath - it’s okay to hold both the want for more sleep and the desire to nurture your baby’s needs.
Night weaning can be done gently, gradually, and respectfully. This is not about forcing change. This is about supporting your baby through a transition at a pace that feels safe for both of you.

When Is It Usually Appropriate to Consider Night Weaning?

Every baby is unique, but gentle night weaning may be considered when:

• Your baby is 6+ months and gaining weight well

• They are feeding well during the day

• Night wakes are more about comfort than hunger

• You feel ready emotionally and physically

It’s completely okay if you’re not ready - there is no deadline. If you're breastfeeding: Night weaning won’t harm your bond. Your connection is built on thousands of loving moments each day - not just feeds.

Signs Your Baby May Be Ready

• Daytime feeds are established and consistent

• They can settle with your presence, not just feeding

• Night wakes are frequent but short

• They only nurse/suck for comfort, not full feeds

If feeds still seem nutritive (long, active sucking), you may want to wait a little longer or reduce gradually.

What About Crying?

Crying is communication, not manipulation.

With gentle night weaning:

• You stay with your baby

• You comfort, reassure, respond

• Your baby never cries alone

We are changing how they fall asleep - not withdrawing love.

Tips to Support the Process

✔ Increase calories during the day (especially late afternoon)
✔ Keep a soothing bedtime routine
✔ Respond with closeness and consistency
✔ Give yourself time - and grace

This is a partnership, not a performance.